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I know that sometimes I can be sensitive to some of the things said in the forum but then again, so can all of us at sometime or another...
However, to call someone's comments "pathetic" is a bit going over the top as others will agree with.
If anything, why do'nt we all establish an agreement to disagree without calling each other names because, without showing any respect for another person's views - whether you agree with them or not, is alot worse of an example being shown towards this individual that's only here to seek advice & wisdom, and not to be drawn into a disagreement that becomes personal as a result of one party insulting the other.
Why do I say this? Because from practicing honor & mutual respect among other qualities are some of the best ways to develop responsibility!
If anyone knows about life being too short too waste a considerable amount of time in arguing over stuff that's just that - stuff!!! It's me!!!
After going through the trauma of being assaulted back in 1986, and barely surviving only to find out years later that I was infected with a deadly virus because of the blood transfusions I recieved back in 1986 - I learned how sometimes life just plain is'nt fair and that's just reality!!! Then to go through some more anxiety & aggrevation of waitng 4 years for the "Gift of Life"because I did'nt respond to treatment, really started to put things into perspective about life being so short... Once I recieved the Liver Transplant, I became genuinely grateful to be alive and wondered why I was given a second chance...
I soon discovered that I was kept here on this earth to help others as an example even though I did'nt think I was worthy of it and in all honesty - I was'nt sure that I could be a good example at all.
My saving grace was my mother's encouragement of at least giving it my best shot so to speak...
So I took her advice and I'm living a full life once again, and still pinching myself at times because I never thought that I'd make it back as far as I did!!! It's not always been easy but then again, I never expected it to be easy!!! During this time I've learned that people will respect you so long as you show it without expecting any in return... I also learned that without respecting one self, one cannot respect others and therefore - one cannot be as responsible as one would like to think!
Respect towards others breeds responsibility within one self and builds their own self-esteem!
In October, it will be ten years since my liver transplant and I want to think that I've accomplished to some degree what my role or purpose in life is... I know that I still have a ways to go but heck learning is after all, is a lifelong process!!! I also learned something early on that I'll always try to teach to other folks that may not be aware of it... None of us are perfect - PERIOD!!! Nor should any of us expect anyone else to be perfect!!! People will always disagree on something or another!!! RESPECT breeds RESPONSIBILITY!!!
Opinions are just that - OPINIONS!!! NOTHING MORE - NOTHING LESS!!!
ENJOY LIFE AS MUCH AS YOU CAN BECAUSE BEFORE YOU KNOW IT - IT"S DONE & YOU'RE GONE!!!
HAVE FUN EVERYONE!!!
Respectfully,
SSBN727
Run Silent... Run Deep!!!