Stephen,
there was a fine thread a time ago and initiated by "Kix" in the forum's "Shop Talk" Section, see also:
http://www.aws.org/cgi-bin/mwf/topic_show.pl?pid=59069;hl=#pid59069Perhaps it is helpful to use some of the information been contained in the answers (including links) some of the gentlemen have frankly given at that time, for responding - at least partly - your questions.
By the way, I am nearly sure - and thus agreeing 100% with Lawrence - to be able to use only one shielding-gas for both applications "Stainless to Stainless" and "Stainless to Mild Steel".
Ar/2-3% CO2 or Ar/2%O2 might be a reasonable choice to accomplish good results.
Regards,
Stephan