Probably what you are doing right is being a good workman. Most problems with carbide brazing are caused by poor surface preparation.
Alloy recommendations are at www.brazealloy.com
For Flux , White flux lets you see what you are doing but Black flux is much more forgiving.
Fro brazing help go to:
http://www.carbideprocessors.com/Brazing/book/index.htmthe free stuff is at the bottom. This is a couple versions old but the basic stuff is still good.
If it is easier you can call emily at 800 346 - 8274 for tech advice and materials. If it gets really technical she'll come wake me up and we can chat.
Tom Walz
P.S. The above covers flux, alloy, cleaning and process. The missing part is carbide surface preparation. Sometimes it works as delivered. If it doesn't just sand or grind the surface until it is a clean gray color. There are surface preparations and you might want to specify your carbide braze treated or similar.
T