Sounds like there is a crack around the nut through the compressor wall. A brazing or soldering operation would work as well as fusion welding IMHO, but the coolant will have to be released in any case. Nothing is going to seal the crack with coolant vaporizing and escaping out the crack while welding, brazing, or soldering. You could attempt an epoxy like J-B Weld with the coolant still in the compressor, but I'm not to sure this would work well, I would think the vibration of the compressor sets up cyclic stresses at the nut, probably why there is a crack in the first place. I'm not too sure how well an epoxy would retard further cracking either, but it may be worth a first try, and it is something your neighbor can do himself.