KB,
Sorry, I didn't really register that you were satisfied with the bandsaw cut but that blade life was the issue.
I cannot assist much beyond the obvious observation that longer bands run cooler and last longer (a better bandsaw?)
Are you using bulk band stock you weld to size yourself?
I guess I thought those power tubing cutters could be had for less than you can find them for; I was actually thinking rental as an alternative but you are suggesting there is some continuity to the project. As for jig-stops, I don't see them as a problem for the tool, configured as I envision.
I've gotten impressively clean cuts with oxyacetylene that only want a light touch-up with a grinder to bring to weldable fit-up... with a fixture or jig to guide the torch tip you might be able to work square tube or flat easily enough, but round tube that small has always been a challenge for me to cut accurately. If you could hold the torch stationary and turn the tube accurately without great expense or Rube Goldberg contraptions, pigs would have wings.
Beyond those aforesaid ideas, Kevin, I'm not much help. To directly answer the first part of your original question, I have no experience with any small cold saw on steel tube.
Regards,
d