I agree with everything you all are saying and believe me, the dad has been told all of this. He told his son the other day that he needed to take his stuff off the and park it in his father's yard. His son said, well dad, I'll have you a truck payment this weekend and I'm suppose to going on a job Monday. Well, he was still home this morning. So, once again, he's told his father exactly what he wanted to hear.
They don't live with the father, but live in one of the father's rent houses and is suppose to pay $350.00 rent. Guess what? He's going on 3 months behind on that, too. We've (his friends and family) told the father all we can and until he listens and does something to make this punk grow up, there is nothing else we can do. So, I know I shouldn't, but when it all comes to a head, I think I'm going to have to say "We told you so"!
I appreciate all of the responses and comments received. Sure sounds like we're all on the same page, just with the father would hurry up and get there!