There's not much point in buttering if your using SS filler, although the thermal expansion can be accomodated better with nothing on the other side, especially if its a large assembly with considerable constraint on the joint. The idea of buttering is primarily to eliminate HT of SS. If you weld with a nickel alloy it makes sense. But direct SS to CS welds with 309 are done everyday.
You should consult engineering to determine if a direct weld is acceptable in your case. In most cases it is.
Another thing, some believe that 309 eliminates the possibility of martensite formation-a hard brittle microstructural constituent. This is not the case. Martensite is always formed. Its a question of how you minimize the martensitic zone. The less dilution the thinner the zone the better the remaining microstrucutre can accomodate any stress.