Allan,
Since you and I seem to have hijacked "your" thread I'll add another quick note.
First, our last two sons, of five children were born at home on the family farm there in Oregon City. On purpose, delivered by me, with a midwife watching. It was great. I wish we had had all the kids at home.
Second, our daughter had their first at home on purpose. Everything was fine. Because of financial reasons they are currently on State assistance with many medical needs accept the son-in-law who gets medical through his work. The next two boys, including the one they lost, were born at home on 'accident'!! Really, our daughter has such easy labor pains and delivers so fast, other women envy or despise her, that the boys were born before anyone including the local fire crew could get to her.
On an interesting note, the same fire crew that delivered Dyllon two years ago, responded to the emergency call when he was run over. What an emotional time for all.
But, yes you are absolutely correct. There are many happy times, even in his short life, but also in our entire life to help each one through this time. And again, family, church, and friends-even those we have never met in person as the people here, are a great comfort.
Have a Great Day, Brent