If by 1045 CR, A36 HR and 1018 CR you mean, respectively, SAE 1045, ASTM A-36 and SAE 1018 steels, the situation is the following:
SAE 1045 is a medium carbon steel. It contains 0.45 % nominal carbon.
ASTM A-36 is a low carbon steel. It contains 0.30 % maximum carbon.
SAE 1018 is a low carbon steel. It contains 0.18 % nominal carbon.
So, you can weld either A-36 or 1018 to 1045 with no significant difference.
1045, however, is a medium carbon steel and so you should take the usual precautions when welding this kind of steel.
I'm just curious. What will be that cylinder for? What are the items made of A-36 and/or 1018 you want to weld to it?
If it's a confidential information, never mind, forget it.
Giovanni S. Crisi
Sao Paulo - Brazil