I am only making a shot in the dark here as I am not fully sure about the setup, but it sounds to me like you are using a rule of thumb concerning tubulent flow in a pipe and sudden contractions of diameter and cross-sections. If this is the case, any fluid dynamics book will reinforce your arguement, but if not disregard this message.
Sorry if I have misunderstood the problem.
gls
Back in my days of erector engineer I've been faced with the same problem a few times.
What we did was to file the flange inner circle maybe one millimeter or two, until it was possible to slip the 45° elbow in it.
So far, I've never heard that those pipings exploded or blew up.
In any case, I havn't anything against what gsi did.
Giovanni S. Crisi
Sao Paulo - Brazil
P.S. The rule of thumb is known also in Brazil and says that no nipple (short piece of pipe) should be shorter that one pipe diameter.
Reason? None, it's just one of those "magic numbers" or "numbers pulled off the air", as Americans say, that we engineers like to use.
Here in Brazil we say "numbers taken off the vest pocket"