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Whatever floats yer boat! Go for it!
But pointing fingers won't do any good since what is done is over with...
This is the beginning of a new chapter in your life and as long as you still have your health, there will be more than enough time to get back whatever material things in your life you may have lost... This is now your opportunity to prove to yourself most of all just how resilient you really are! So you failed... So what! it happens all of the time and it will happen to anyone who thinks they cannot fail... If someone tells you that they have never failed then they're not living in reality Tommy and failing is what makes you stronger once you learn to accept it, learn from it and move on from it!
So from here on in you must learn to accept what has happened or you'll walk around begging for a fight for the rest of your life as you build up your attitude that will reflect a hostility towards potential customers/clients as well as many of your existing ones also... After understanding this in order to begin accepting what has happened in a positive light, you must then learn how to adapt to your new way of living which means making some really hard choices in how you spread your money around your life as well as your family's lives also... On how trusting you should be towards people that you really do not know and to get everything on paper before you make any important moves...
But most of all, you must remain confident in yourself and remain positive in your hopes and dreams because you and your family'sr life isn't over by any means at all Tommy!
Improvising is going to be part of your mantra also in order to overcome this setback that is only temporary - that is unless you want it to become permanently a cloud over you and wondering when it will go away because, only YOU can do that!
So pick yourself up and dust yourself off and then get ready for the beginning of the rest of your life Tommy!
If this sounds redundant then so be it because someone needs to remind or confirm to you what you already know... You're going to get through this being better than ever!
Respectfully,
Henry